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Tertiary institutions

The resources in this toolkit are designed to be used by those responsible for the design and administration of policies and procedures.

The tertiary sector offers almost endless opportunities for people from all walks of life to interact, engage and learn. But unfortunately, many of the same online safety risks experienced throughout society are reflected in these communities. It is important to support students and staff to have positive experiences in a safe online environment.

Resources

These resources offer guidance to the institutional leaders and staff tasked with managing the online risks that can impact their tertiary community.

The resources are specific to this audience, covering policies, principles and procedures that will help create safer online environments and respond to incidents within their communities.

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'Technology-facilitated coercive control' or 'tech-based abuse' involves the use of digital technologies as part of coercive control. Tech-based coercive control is not just a single act, but a pattern of behaviour used against a person.

It’s a serious form of abuse that's not widely understood.

Learn some of the warning signs that someone might be using technology to control you: watch our video 'Love is'. 

You can also recommend and explore videos dealing with dating and relationships, navigating difficult situations, online safety and connecting with respect.

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[A series of definitions in the style of a dictionary entry appear]

love:

- to feel deep affection for someone

- supporting your ambition to win the local karaoke cup

love isn't:

- to use tech to coerce or control someone

- constantly messaging you

[text messages appear]

- Where are you?

- What are you doing?

- Who are you with?

love:

- to feel deep affection for someone

- giving you space to vent about your boss... again

love isn't:

- to use tech to coerce or control someone

- forcing you to share your location data, so they can track where you are

love:

- to feel deep affection for someone

- thinking your snort-laugh is the best sound ever

love isn't:

- to use tech to coerce or control someone

- telling you what selfies you can and can't post on social media

[text messages appear]

- I told you not to post that

- You look awful

- Take it down

- I said no

love:

- to feel deep affection for someone

- celebrating your successes tiny, big and small

love isn't:

- to use tech to coerce or control someone

- getting jealous and possessive when you add new friends online

[text messages appear]

- Why did you add them?

- Who are they?

- How do you know them?

love:

- to feel deep affection for someone

- always having a shoulder to ugly-cry on

love isn't:

- to use tech to coerce or control someone

- getting angry when you don't want to send them nudes

[text messages appear]

- But you owe me

- Why not?

- Don't you love me?

Video: Love is... to feel deep affection for someone

Audio

I believe social media websites should have a duty of care to protect its users.

Especially when cyberbullying is so much easier to do behind the screen than face-to-face.

So, what's cyberbullying?

It can range from someone at school posting indirect but aggressive comments about you or someone setting up a fake or embarrassing account in your name.

It's behavior that's consistent, persistent and designed to humiliate you and anyone can cyberbully you – from a friend to a stranger. 

No matter the form it takes, cyberbullying is never okay.

If you feel comfortable enough, you can try asking the person to take their comments down. 

If the cyberbullying misrepresents you or your opinion, you can try saying, 'Hey, this is unfair' before explaining your reasons why.

If the bullying gets worse, this is usually a sign that things aren't going to get better without outside help.

Often cyberbullies like a fight, especially from behind the screen. If this happens, it's time to screenshot, report and block. 

The websites you're on are also responsible for your welfare, which means that any cyberbullying should be reported to them first to address. 

If nothing changes, eSafety can also step in.

Report it to eSafety and they'll do their best to help you out.

So my final word of advice is to stay positive, and the cyberbullying itself reflects the cyberbully not you and it's okay to seek help.

Lachlan: How to deal with cyberbullying

Last updated: 26/03/2025